Connect with God and others. The secret to Jesus’ attraction was that he did not preach down on people or put them down. He Loves you and wants to genuinely connect and be with you emotionally and spiritually. His comment to the woman at the well about living with someone was NOT to embarrass or shame her. It was a method of letting her know he knew the worst about her and still wanted her to give him a drink of water and to have them share and connect with each other. Who are you connecting with today?